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The Plan of HAPPINESS


I felt a little overwhelmed in preparing this talk. We were given the topic of the Plan of Salvation and told we only needed to speak 7 minutes. I wondered how I was supposed to teach about something so huge and important in just 7 minutes. And honestly, I can’t. I can’t really convey how important it is in the time given. So, I’m going to assume that most of us have a basic knowledge and understanding of The Plan of Salvation. If you don’t, then I would encourage you to do a few things. First, read the scriptures, pray, and read Preach My Gospel. In our last ward I was called as a ward missionary. It made me realize that there was a lot I didn’t understand about this religion that I profess to be part of. So I began to study from Preach My Gospel, which I never had before. And I learned a lot, and my testimony grew a lot. I'm so grateful for that calling and how much it helped strengthen my testimony. If there is something you don’t quite understand, or want to improve your ability to teach others, add studying from Preach My Gospel to your routine.

There is a reason The Plan of Salvation, or the Plan of Happiness, is usually the second lesson missionaries teach. Most of us, spend our lives looking for something to hold on to, something that will last. Trying to understand where we came from, who we are, and where we are going. The Plan of Happiness, provides us with the answers so many of us desperately search for.

Understanding the plan clarifies our spiritual vision and allows us to see things as they really are. God has had a plan for our lives a divine path the Lord wishes to lead us down—a plan that, if we can understand, will provide comfort and guidance now, as well as salvation and eternal happiness in our postmortal life.



























Robert D Hales once said;

"By understanding and obediently following God’s plan, we keep ourselves from wandering off the path that leads back to our Heavenly Father. Then, and only then, can we live the kind of life He leads, which is “eternal life, … the greatest of all the gifts of God."


How empowering it is to know the plan! The plan of salvation is one of the greatest treasures of knowledge ever given to mankind because it explains the eternal purpose of life. Without it, we are truly wandering in the dark. This is why God’s pattern is to give commandments to His children “after having made known unto them the plan of redemption.”

Alma 24:14
And the great God has had mercy on us, and made these things known unto us that we might not perish; yea, and he has made these things known unto us beforehand, because he loveth our souls as well as he loveth our children; therefore, in his mercy he doth visit us by his angels, that the plan of salvation might be made known unto us as well as unto future generations.

It really is such a TREASURE of knowledge. How lucky are we to know of this plan of happiness. I can personally attest to the stark difference in life with, and without Gods guidance. While no matter what, he always loves us and is ready and willing to help us, he can only guide us if we are worthy of that guidance. Even if we are worthy of his guidance, we need to ask for it, search out his help and be willing to listen. You will feel so much more peace and happiness with his guidance. We certainly won't know everything, no one knows what the future holds, but he is the only one able to provide us the peace to help us carry on.

I never pictured ourselves living in Texas, but we felt directed to come here. We considered lots of other places, Arizona, Florida, Norfolk, Virginia, we really wanted to be close to family in Utah, but we felt pulled to Texas. It's been amazing the peace I have felt in knowing this is where we are supposed to be at this moment. I have seen his hand in so many instances, helping us along the way, the move here going so smoothly. We didn't have time to come and pick a place out prior, so we packed our little car full, had a list of places we wanted to look at and booked a hotel for a couple days, hoping and praying we would be able to find a place quick. And we did. The morning after we had arrived, we found a great place and were able to move in the very next day. We are so grateful to be here and to have felt so welcomed by everyone here.

One of my favorite quotes of all time is by Matthew S. Holland from a devotional address, “The Coming Forth of the Book of Mormon,” delivered at the Provo MTC;

You have a Brother who watches over you, ready to rescue you and advance your service with arms far stronger than your arms--far stronger, in fact, than all other arms of the flesh combined. Those arms are there to sustain and bless you, “in every time of trouble” (D&C 3:8), no matter how alone and discouraged you may feel. Therefore, as you move forward with your life, trust in those arms and “be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid … for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee” (Deuteronomy 31:6).

The Plan of Salvation provides us with one thing that we can find nowhere else; Peace. In lots of ways, the world we live in is scary. The news is scary. The upcoming election is scary. Crime, illness, disease, it’s all scary. And while the Plan of Salvation doesn’t promise that we won’t go through hardships, it promises us that despite those, we can feel peace, and know that we are not alone and that we are being watched over. And even death doesn’t need to be scary.

Alma 12:25
Now, if it had not been for the plan of redemption, which was laid from the foundation of the world, there could have been no resurrection of the dead; but there was a plan of redemption laid, which shall bring to pass the resurrection of the dead, of which has been spoken.

This may be odd for me to say, but death is not usually a sad thing for me. Certainly when someone is lost before their time, accident, or illness, that really is heartbreaking, and we certainly miss those who pass on, but I have a great comfort in knowing that they are at peace, we certainly will see them again, and that they are with us in spirit.

My last remaining grandparents, on my moms side, both passed away within the last year. My grandma was struggling with dementia and Alzheimer's, and seeing her in such a state was so painful for the family, but particularly grandpa. My heart broke for him, and my aunts who frequently had to come to the rescue. Her health had been deteriorating for quite some time, but the last couple years were particularly hard. It brings me such peace to know that she doesn't have to struggle with that illness anymore. And I know how much grandpa dearly missed her. And know he can be with her again, without the terrible hardship of her illness, often times preventing her from even remembering who he was. I can only imagine how sweet their reunion together was. My heart aches for those who do not know what comes after death. How scary that would be. That aspect of the Plan of Salvation alone, to know that there is life after this, is something we should want to shout from the rooftops, and share with every single person we meet.

If you feel hungry, like something is missing and you're not sure what it is, if you feel lost, if you feel alone, if you feel overwhelmed by fear and anxiety, I hope you take a chance on the Lord. Do what we have always been told to do. Read the scriptures and pray. But feast on those scriptures, and kneel when you pray, and give your whole heart in sincere prayer. I know the Lord has so many blessings for us. I know He has a designed path for each of us that He wants so badly to lead us down. But we have to be as sincere to Him as He is sincere to us.

5 Years of Bliss

Thursday August 13th was our 5 year wedding anniversary! I can hardly believe it. It certainly does not feel like it's been 5 years. I am so grateful for my Bear. I am so blessed to have such a loving, thoughtful, hardworking man by my side.

I am so grateful for all the fun times we have together, just the two of us. I never would have thought that we would live in the greater DC area, and have been able to visit 7 states just in the span of a year, as well as visit gorgeous Florida twice (and possibly be going for a third time) in the same year! We are very blessed! I can't wait to see what more adventures the future holds for us!

Here is a little video I put together of some of my favorite shots;



Uplifted

Lately I've been trying to expand my studying of the gospel. Of course, we are supposed to read the scriptures and I can personally attest to how much that strengthens my testimony and love for this gospel. But there is also so many other sources we are able to study and learn from and be uplifted by. 

(I know this is not the July 2015 cover, I couldn't find a full res pic of it!)


Confession time; I have never actually really read the Ensign. 

I grew up reading the New Era and the Friend, but as an adult I have never read much from the Ensign. But the past couples months I have been trying to make sure to read at least one article from it every day. I LOVE IT! Guys! I can't believe I missed out on it for so long. And you don't have to pay for a physical subscription to have access to it (which I foolishly used to think was the case) you can access it for free online, or through the LDS Library app. Of course the physical copy is nice to have too (and is actually really cheap) but online and free works great! I read it almost entirely through the app while on the go and read a little bit throughout the day whenever I have a free second. It really helps uplift my day and add a little light to my heart when I'm having a hard time, on top of reading the scriptures. 

So to maybe convince you to start reading it if you aren't, I have compiled some (just some, not all, cause I have SO MANY) of my favorite quotes just from the July Ensign;

My absolute favorite parts are bold!

All is Well
By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"The pioneers serve as a good reminder of why we must break away from the temptation to isolate ourselves and, instead, reach out to help each other and have compassion and love for one another."

"The pioneers, who sacrificed so much, went without and hungered for even the most basic of necessities to survive. They understood that happiness doesn’t come as a result of luck or accident. It most certainly doesn’t come from having all of our wishes come true. Happiness doesn’t come from external circumstances. It comes from the inside--regardless of what is happening around us."


April 2015 Conference Notebook
Bonnie L. Oscarson

“… Let us help build the kingdom of God by standing up boldly and being defenders of marriage, parenthood, and the home. The Lord needs us to be brave, steadfast, and immovable warriors who will defend His plan and teach the upcoming generations His truths.”


Preparing to enter the House of the Lord
By Elder Kent F. Richards

"Each time you enter the temple, you can feel of His Spirit and receive additional revelation and understanding while providing the necessary ordinances for others. You will understand and receive assurance of your eternal existence and the unending power of your covenants. If we were not eternal beings, the temple would have no significance."

"The promises in the temple are rich and noble. They are the “great favors” and “great blessings” (3 Nephi 10:18) that our Father has reserved for you personally. So smile when you think of the temple."


Filled with life and energy
By Randal A. Wright

"“If you are to be successful, you will need to be inspired. You will need to receive revelation. I will give you one piece of advice: Go to bed early and get up early. If you do, your body and mind will become rested and then in the quiet of those early morning hours, you will receive more flashes of inspiration and insight than at any other time of the day.”

"Additional blessings are pledged to those who follow the Lord’s counsel on sleep. Consider these incredible promises: “Cease to sleep longer than is needful; retire to thy bed early, that ye may not be weary; arise early, that your bodies and your minds may be invigorated” (D&C 88:124; emphasis added). Invigorate means “to fill with life and energy.”

There must be an excellent reason for the injunction to retire and arise early [see D&C 88:124]. … The world is a more beautiful place early in the morning. Life is so much more calm. Much more can be accomplished in a shorter amount of time.”


God's plan for families
Mark A. Mathews

President Joseph Fielding Smith (1876–1972) explained: “Marriage as established in the beginning was an eternal covenant. The first man and the first woman were not married until death should part them, for at that time death had not come into the world. The ceremony on that occasion was performed by the Eternal Father himself whose work endures forever.”

Thus, the crowning event of the Creation was not just when Adam and Eve were created in the image of their heavenly parents but when they were sealed in eternal marriage like their heavenly parents. From the beginning, marriage between a man and a woman was ordained of God and established as the ultimate purpose of our creation.


Reaping the Rewards of Righteousness
Elder Quentin L. Cook

Living worthy of a temple recommend, receiving temple ordinances, and being true to our covenants gives us the focus and vision to stay on the covenant path. When our youth live worthy to perform baptisms for the dead, their lives will be in order.

The most important thing you can do is to make sure your children and those you nurture know that you love them. Love is the key ingredient to happiness.

The Lord God is indeed a sun and shield and will give grace and glory. No good thing will be withheld from them that walk uprightly (see Psalm 84:11). My prayer is that you may reap the rewards of righteousness as you faithfully follow our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

The Coming Forth of the Book of Mormon
By Matthew S. Holland

Joseph translated an astonishing 588 pages of the Book of Mormon in what was, at most, 65 working days. It is also instructive to note that the translation of the King James Bible took 47 trained scholars, working in languages they already knew, seven years to complete.
But the greatest miracle in all of this is not found in how fast things were accomplished but in the complexity of what was produced in that highly demanding time frame.

“Not only are there more than a thousand years of history [in the Book of Mormon] involving some two hundred named individuals and nearly a hundred distinct places, but the narrative itself is presented as the work of three primary editor/historians--Nephi, Mormon, and Moroni. These figures, in turn, claim to have based their accounts on dozens of preexisting records. The result is a complex mix that incorporates multiple genres ranging from straightforward narration to inserted sermons and letters to scriptural commentary and poetry. It requires considerable patience to work out all the details of chronology, geography, genealogy, and source records, but the Book of Mormon is remarkably consistent on all this. The chronology is handled virtually without glitches, despite several flashbacks and temporally overlapping narratives; … and the narrators keep straight both the order and family connections among the twenty-six Nephite record keepers and forty-one Jaredite kings (including rival lines). The complexity is such that one would assume the author worked from charts and maps, though Joseph Smith’s wife … explicitly denied that he had written something out beforehand that he either had memorized or consulted as he translated, and indeed she claimed that Joseph began sessions of dictation without looking at the manuscript or having the last passage read back to him.”

You have a Brother who watches over you, ready to rescue you and advance your service with arms far stronger than your arms--far stronger, in fact, than all other arms of the flesh combined. Those arms are there to sustain and bless you, “in every time of trouble” (D&C 3:8), no matter how alone and discouraged you may feel. Therefore, as you move forward with your life, trust in those arms and “be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid … for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee” (Deuteronomy 31:6).

Joseph discovered this and changed the world. You can too.


Vine and Branches
Various

Christ’s gospel and His Church help us overcome the tendency of the natural man to sag in sin and selfishness and to wallow in worldly things that harm us spiritually. By living the gospel and keeping covenants, we are lifted up to greater joy, peace, and service.

“Jesus said, ‘Without me ye can do nothing’ [John 15:5]. I testify that that is God’s truth. Christ is everything to us and we are to ‘abide’ in Him permanently, unyieldingly, steadfastly, forever. For the fruit of the gospel to blossom and bless our lives, we must be firmly attached to Him, the Savior of us all, and to this His Church, which bears His holy name. He is the vine that is our true source of strength and the only source of eternal life. In Him we not only will endure but also will prevail and triumph in this holy cause that will never fail us.”

A Little Update

I had been really sick for nearly 3 weeks. 3 weeks! Ugh. I finally made a visit to the doctor who told me that it didn't sound too serious but that my stomach may have had too much stomach acid which was making my stomach raw. So he gave me something to take twice a day to lower the levels of stomach acid. Immediately it helped! I am so glad that it was such an easy fix and nothing more serious. So grateful for modern medicine! 

The other day Dave and I took my ring for a check up and get cleaned. Can I tell you what a pain it was just to find Jared! We had never been in that area before, and the dumb navigation app kept having us take u-turns and couldn't figure out how to get us there. There was a point where I actually said, "Just forget it, let's go home!" But, after trying a different app (thanks for being No Help, Waze!) we finally got there. 

The lady at Jared asked where we got the ring, because she had never seen the design before. I am glad to know my ring is unique, even to someone who works at Jared. 

I have a lot of friends who have upgraded or added on to their wedding rings after only being married a short time. And that's fine, but I've had this ring running on four years now and I haven't had one day where I am sick of it. I love my ring. Sure, I would like to do a custom add-on to it, but I am still perfectly happy with it. 

After they cleaned it and confirmed I had no loose stones we went to find a place for lunch. Directly across from Jared we found a Jason's Deli! I literally squealed. 

Dave said, "I have never heard you make that noise, over anything." I was seriously excited. I had no idea Jason's Deli was in VA, I thought they were just on the West Coast. Happy day! 

enjoying lunch

After a yummy lunch we visited our favorite, World Market. Ugh, I LOVE that place. 



Darling little pop-up cards they had. All sold out though! Heart break! 



I WILL be going back to buy these darling, nesting owl measuring cups! 


If you have never treated yourself with a trip to World Market, go, and bring at least $50, if not $100. And make sure to buy a bottle of the Georgia Peach sparkling soda. You're welcome.

Happy Friday!

xoxo

Happy Anniversary To Us!


This past Tuesday Dave and I celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary! 

It's crazy to think we have been married 3 years. I really can't imagine life without my Davey. We may sometimes butt heads but I really love this guy. He is such a big sweetheart and is always so thoughtful and aware of my needs. 

I have been really sick lately and it has just reminded me of how very lucky and grateful I am to have him. He is such a kind man. I can't wait to see what lies ahead of us! 


Sorry to anyone who follows me on Instagram for my wedding picture overload, I was having fun reminiscing! 



Thank you to everyone who has been a part of our lives thus far. We have so many wonderful friends and family members who have added to our adventures together that I wouldn't trade for anything and make me even more excited to see what is ahead of us. And a huge thank you to our amazing photographer, Angie Monson, who I will be forever grateful to for our wedding pictures. I am so grateful for my family, and my new(ish) family, all the Cavanaughs. I am one lucky girl!  

Valentines Weekend (Full Post)




Valentines weekend was lots of fun. Dave and I have been trying to be better about getting out of the house instead of staying cooped up watching our big TV over the weekend.

So....

Saturday morning Dave and I drove up to Trolly Square.
I seriously don’t remember the last time I went up there. I feel like my family use to go there a lot as I was growing up, but walking through Trolly Square was pretty heart breaking. There were so many empty shops! It’s such an awesome lay out, it’s sad how barren it is! But I was happy to find that we had a Williams Sonoma, I had no idea where one was in Utah. (But looking at there website it looks like there is one Provo, so that’s nice and close)

And (ironic) side note, Monday morning while listening to the news I found out that that Saturday was the 4 year “anniversary” of the shooting that went on at Troll Square, kinda interesting...

After that, we were both starving so we drove around for place to eat.

Almost every time we drive up to Salt Late I beg to go to the Corner Bakery, just because they are by far my favorite. But we wanted something different this time. So without much direction we just drove around Salt Lake until we found a small strip mall with a handful of restaurants.

We decided to eat at a little Greek place called Aristo’s. I honestly have not eaten much, if any Greek food and, being so so picky, I was nervous about it, but to say the least I am now a big Greek food fan.
I ordered their Chicken Wrap with a side of Orzo Pasta Salad and Dave ordered a Chicken Gyro and a Greek Salad. It was all so so so so so so yummy! I would love going back.
Also, to top off all the yumminess we enjoyed some oh so delightful baklava. Seriously so yummy. But! We did find out that you can not, CAN NOT get good "fast food" Greek food, at least in Orem. Wanting some Greek food and feeling too lazy to make it our selves and not wanting to drive clear up to Salt Lake, we went to a place in Orem that was hardly what we expected. And whats worst of all (not including the gas to get up there) we could have gone to Aristo's and only payed $5 more for a meal a million times better.
I think we will just start making it ourselves...

On Sunday we celebrated our happy 6 months of being married and Dave made an oh so yummy steak, crab legs, and coconut shrimp dinner and I made chocolate fondue for desert!
A very yummy weekend.

On Monday Valentines day Dave made a yummy little dinner with a baked chicken and potatoes with a yummy cheese sauce. And he bought me this adorable necklace and ring off of Etsy;




So cute, right!?
The shop is adorable and I have been eying lots of their products for a few weeks now!
I love Etsy!


Brad and Julie - Engaged ~ A Few More

Here are just a few more shots I have of Brad and Julie. Such a funny, cute couple. So excited for their wedding next month!

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Clink!

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Brad and Julie Engaged

Thanksgiving


A little behind in posts but I have a good excuse. Grandma died (Dad's mom). And what came as a result of that was us last minute making space for grandpa to move in and as a result of that I got behind in school, and a number of other things. So here we are, going back a while, to thanksgiving.


Most years we do thanksgiving at our house. We only have the grandparents and sometimes uncles on moms side come and that's it. But this year, mom's sister and family moved back to Utah. They've lived around and about in the east since I was like nine or something. It's been a while. But now they have this nice big house and we went there. Which was nice cause then we didn't have to worry about making food.


Since Grandpa Schmidt was now alone, he came up with us. He seemed to enjoy it. Here are the pictures I took while we were there.


Aunt Rachel ^




Grandpa Pugh


Shoefly pie for Grandpa Schmidt. His fave.





David had this thing with trying to mess up my pictures but he wasn't all that successful.





Britt and Em




This is all blury but it's one of my fave.